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Austin speaks to leaders, faith communities, book clubs, executive teams, universities, and organizations about perception, story, and the cost of misunderstanding.

What Austin speaks about.

KEYNOTE

The Villain in Someone Else's Story

A 45- to 60-minute talk drawn from the book. The Lens, The Story, The Spread. Suited for leadership conferences, faith communities, book clubs, and organizational gatherings. Walk-away: a framework for the moments your community is already navigating, even if no one has named them yet.

WORKSHOP

Why People Hurt People

A two- to three-hour interactive session built on the Four P's framework, Protection, Pain, Power, Preservation. Best for teams in conflict, board retreats, and ministry leadership cohorts. Walk-away: language and tools for the difficult conversations already on the calendar.

TALK

Exploitation in the Family Court System

A sober, research-grounded look at how high-conflict family court proceedings reward the loudest narrative over the most accurate one, and what that costs children, fathers, mothers, and the institutions trying to do right by them. Built for legal-aid organizations, family law CLEs, judicial education programs, and advocacy groups working to reform the system from the inside.

TALK

Perception and Our Careers

Most people are not promoted, passed over, or pushed out because of what they did. They are moved because of the story other people tell about what they did. A practical session on the perception gap between how you see your work and how decision-makers see it, and how to close it without becoming someone you do not recognize. Good fit for university career programs, professional associations, and emerging-leader cohorts.

EXECUTIVE

Disagree and Commit

A focused session for executive teams and boards on the discipline of arguing hard, deciding cleanly, and walking out of the room aligned. Drawn from the research on perception, narrative, and the silent stories that form when leaders confuse politeness with agreement. Best for leadership offsites, executive retreats, and founder teams navigating a high-stakes decision.

CUSTOM

Custom Topics

If your community is sitting with a question this work touches but the talks above are not quite the shape of it, Austin will build a session around what you actually need. Tell him the audience, the moment, and the conversation you wish you could have. He will write to that.

The kinds of rooms this fits.

The talk shifts to fit the room. The question underneath it stays the same.

Leadership & executive teams

Offsites, board retreats, and founder teams working through a decision where politeness has started to stand in for agreement.

Faith communities

Congregations and ministry leaders sitting with the hard, human question of why people who mean well still end up cast as the villain.

Universities & emerging leaders

Career programs, professional associations, and student cohorts learning to close the gap between the work they do and the story told about it.

Advocacy & legal groups

Legal-aid organizations and reform-minded groups working inside systems where the loudest narrative too often wins over the most accurate one.

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I picked it up expecting a book about being misunderstood. What I got was a mirror.
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